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A woman was mortified by how her fiance’s niece treated her.<\/p>\n

She went on Reddit’s \u201cAm I the A ******? (AITA) \u201dforum for help. After she got engaged to her long-distance boyfriend of three years, she started spending more time with his niece and sister. But when his niece di lei started to make rude comments and demanded to try on the Reddit poster’s engagement ring, things took a turn.<\/p>\n

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“I, f36 recently got engaged to my fianc\u00e9, m34. He’s in the military and has an extended family. He’s close to his sister and 21-year-old niece. When I met his niece di lei, she seemed sweet but she kept making passive agressive comments about me. like how I look older than my fianc\u00e9, how we’re incompitable just due to our star signs or whatever. And when we announced my engagement she told my fianc\u00e9 he is moving too fast (we been dating for alomost 3 yrs, LDR). “<\/p>\n

\u201cYesterday I visited my future inlaws and his sister and niece were there. His niece di lui saw my ring and commented on it saying ‘I bet this is the fanciest one you’ve ever got! just like my uncle! ‘. I felt offended and thought that was rude but I ignored her because of how MIL was looking at me. But she (his niece di lei) asked if she could try the ring on, I was taken aback I said no, she asked again but I still said no. next thing I knew she got up from her seat and stood infront of me extending her arm di lei expecting me to take the ring off di lei and give it to her. “<\/p>\n

No matter how much the Reddit poster pled with the future niece-in-law, she wouldn’t drop it.<\/p>\n

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“I was like WTF? I said ‘please go back to your seat, I already said no’, SIL said it was fine but I said I just didn’t feel comfortable. SIL then looked at me quizzically and was like ‘are you serious ??, that’s his niece di lei, just let her try it on!’ I said I’m sorry but no. “<\/p>\n

\u201cMIL asked me to stay but I insisted on leaving. SIL tried calling me and because I needed time to answer she sent a text saying my behavior was alarming and that she will bring this incident up to her brother when he gets back becausw she sensed that I’m trying to drive a wedge between her daughter and my fianc\u00e9 for whatever reason. We haven’t talked after that and I really don’5 know what to think of this, I don’t know if I acted poorly but I’ll leave this to you maybe I’m missing something. AITA ?? “<\/p>\n