via a statement<\/a>. It read in part, “On a Houston radio show interview today, I mentioned that a massage that has a ‘happy ending’ is not illegal, meaning it is not illegal for someone to have consensual sex with a therapist after a massage unless the sex is for pay. Deshaun did not pay anyone for sex. I was using the term hypothetically and not describing Deshaun’s case.<\/p>\n“I have reiterated to others it’s not ok to do anything that a woman does not agree to do. These women have alleged assault in their pleadings. I was speaking in a hypothetical situation. If there is a consensual sexual encounter after a massage, that is not a crime nor the basis for a civil lawsuit. I was not talking about what Deshaun did or did not do or expected or did not expect. “<\/p>\n
A yikes interview followed by a yikes statement. Watson may be a creep, but whatever he’s paying Hardin in billable hours is too much.<\/p>\n
Hardin has now done quite the about-face over the past year. Initially he implied all of the accusers were liars. Now he’s saying there was sexual contact between Watson and at least some of the therapists, but it was consensual, even though nearly two dozen lawsuits indicate not all of them were, not in the women’s eyes.<\/p>\n
His statement and clarification are still smearing the women, implying all of them are sex workers and propagating a trope. What’s become clear is that Watson was at minimum hoping for a sexual encounter with many if not all of the women he made appointments with and had little to no interest in therapeutic massage; if he wanted sex workers he surely could find them, and pay for the anonymity and discretion that would have kept him out of the situation he’s in now.<\/p>\n
Some of the women who have accused Watson of wrongdoing worked with him more than once; some accusers said his behavior escalated with each visit until it became unbearable. These women were by and large running their own micro-business, and having a client like Watson could have been a boon, so they tried to tolerate it until they couldn’t anymore.<\/p>\n
It’s a familiar predicament for a lot of women.<\/p>\n
It’s understandable that a woman excited about potentially having an NFL quarterback as a regular client would give him a second chance even after an initial meeting left her feeling distressed. Maybe she’d misinterpreted his actions di lei the first time and he’d be better the second time. Or maybe she could internalize a little bit of discomfort if it meant she got a deep-pocketed client with numerous teammates who might also need a massage therapist.<\/p>\n
Deshaun Watson clearly doesn’t care how he made some of those women feel. Rusty Hardin clearly doesn’t care how Watson made some of those women feel. The Cleveland Browns clearly don’t care.<\/p>\n
Trying to wave off incidents like the ones Watson has been accused of are why they continue to happen. Ignoring the concept of consent and a person’s right to say yes or no is why they continue to happen.<\/p>\n
It’s why women still are so often afraid of what else will happen to them if they speak their truth. People like Dan Snyder will be protected, lawyers like Rusty Hardin will smear accusers, quarterbacks like Deshaun Watson will get guaranteed contracts.<\/p>\n
It’s long past time for it to stop.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n