{"id":80441,"date":"2022-09-28T07:29:36","date_gmt":"2022-09-28T07:29:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/harchi90.com\/denies-she-abandoned-him-in-new-book\/"},"modified":"2022-09-28T07:29:36","modified_gmt":"2022-09-28T07:29:36","slug":"denies-she-abandoned-him-in-new-book","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harchi90.com\/denies-she-abandoned-him-in-new-book\/","title":{"rendered":"Denies she &#8216;abandoned&#8217; him in new book"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<aside class=\"gnt_em gnt_em__fp gnt_em_vp__tp gnt_em__el\" aria-label=\"Video - Kelly Ripa says botox is 'maintenance' for her job on TV; opens up about Regis Philbin\"\/>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\">At the start of Kelly Ripa&#8217;s &#8220;Live Wire: Long-Winded Short Stories&#8221; (Dey Street, 320 pp., out now), she drolly recalls how her book announcement got overshadowed by Prince Harry announcing his forthcoming memoir. <\/p>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\">Now, Ripa&#8217;s debut book arrives just one week after Queen Elizabeth&#8217;s funeral and wall-to-wall royals coverage.  The &#8220;Live&#8221; host doesn&#8217;t think the timing is a coincidence. <\/p>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\">&#8220;I feel like they are pretty much asking me to be a member of the family,&#8221; Ripa deadpans, speaking to USA TODAY over Zoom last week.  &#8220;They&#8217;re proper British, and they&#8217;re not just going to come right out and say they want me to join. So this is their subtle British way of saying, &#8216;Kelly, yes, it is you.&#8217;  &#8221; <\/p>\n<figure class=\"gnt_em gnt_em_img gnt_em_img__inset\"><\/figure>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\">Ripa&#8217;s irreverent humor and conversational prose is on full display in &#8220;Live Wire,&#8221; which brims with slice-of-life stories about her longtime marriage to &#8220;All My Children&#8221; co-star Mark Consuelos and raising their three kids: Michael, 25, Lola, 21, and Joaquin, 19.<\/p>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\">She also gets candid about co-hosting morning show &#8220;Live!&#8221;  with Regis Philbin for a decade until he retired in 2011. The two rarely socialized off camera and rumors of a &#8220;feud&#8221; ran amok, with Philbin claiming in 2017 that Ripa was &#8220;very offended&#8221; by his exit and never invited him back on the show.  (In actuality, he appeared on a 2015 Halloween episode of &#8220;Live,&#8221; in which Ripa hugged Philbin and invited him to her house.) <\/p>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\">Ripa, 51, talks more about Philbin, Consuelos and how she hopes to make Botox less &#8220;taboo.&#8221; <\/p>\n<figure class=\"gnt_em gnt_em_img\"><img class=\"gnt_em_img_i\" style=\"height:440px\" data-g-r=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.gannett-cdn.com\/presto\/2022\/09\/25\/USAT\/80a18b1e-aa66-4172-bacd-267ce99a7452-XXX_Entertainment__92nd_Academy_Awards_20200209_USA_djm_0087.jp.JPG?ssl=1\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.gannett-cdn.com\/presto\/2022\/09\/25\/USAT\/80a18b1e-aa66-4172-bacd-267ce99a7452-XXX_Entertainment__92nd_Academy_Awards_20200209_USA_djm_0087.jp.JPG?width=1320&amp;height=880&amp;fit=crop&amp;format=pjpg&amp;auto=webp 2x\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Kelly Ripa walks the red carpet at the Academy Awards in Los Angeles in 2020.\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/figure>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\"><strong>Question: You write about learning to say, &#8220;No, that doesn&#8217;t work for me,&#8221; and not apologizing for it.  When did you realize how important that was? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\"><em>Answer: <\/em>There were so many times I realized I was putting myself last and &#8220;yes&#8221;-ing everyone to the point of exhaustion, burnout (and) mental collapse.  And it was never met with any sort of reciprocal, &#8220;Oh yes, and in turn, we will give you a nice, long maternity leave.&#8221;  None of that happened.<strong\/> So it really was the power of, &#8220;No, that doesn&#8217;t work for me,&#8221; that stops people in their tracks.  They realize you are emphatically, completely saying no and explaining that it doesn&#8217;t work for you, and it leaves them nowhere to go.<\/p>\n<aside aria-label=\"advertisement\" class=\"gnt_m gnt_x gnt_x__lbl gnt_x__al\"\/>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\">It sounds simple, but you really have to rehearse it.  People, particularly women, have a very hard time not saying, &#8220;Oh, I&#8217;m so sorry.&#8221;  You&#8217;re not sorry.  That doesn&#8217;t work for you.  Period. <\/p>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\"><strong>After so many years of people pitting you and Regis against each other \u2013 including Regis himself a couple times in interviews \u2013 how did it feel to set the record straight about your relationship?<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure class=\"gnt_em gnt_em_img gnt_em_img__inset\"><img class=\"gnt_em_img_i\" style=\"height:421px\" data-g-r=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.gannett-cdn.com\/presto\/2022\/09\/25\/USAT\/827bbaeb-50e1-4f89-b69c-4cd405e80cd8-USP_Entertainment__LIVE_with_Regis_and_Kelly.jpg?ssl=1\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.gannett-cdn.com\/presto\/2022\/09\/25\/USAT\/827bbaeb-50e1-4f89-b69c-4cd405e80cd8-USP_Entertainment__LIVE_with_Regis_and_Kelly.jpg?width=600&amp;height=842&amp;fit=crop&amp;format=pjpg&amp;auto=webp 2x\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Kelly Ripa, left, and Regis Philbin on the New York set of &quot;Live!  with Regis and Kelly&quot; in 2007. Philbin died in 2020 at age 88.\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/figure>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\"><em>Answer:<\/em> It gave me a glimmer of hope.  I was very careful in those chapters and very reverent toward him.  I am fully aware of his legacy and everything he brought to the table, so I just wanted to use<strong\/> facts on record.  I did not understand this need to vilify the woman always, and when it&#8217;s a two-person discussion, why isn&#8217;t it a two-person discussion?  Nobody ever asked me to clarify anything;  I wasn&#8217;t asked for my side of the story.<\/p>\n<aside aria-label=\"advertisement\" class=\"gnt_m gnt_x gnt_x__lbl gnt_x__al\"\/>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\">It was somehow this false narrative that I had abandoned someone that I was very close to \u2013 that we were best friends and I had abandoned him.  And none of that was true.  We had a very professional, working relationship.  I enjoyed listening to him tell his stories more than anyone.  I loved that part of the show because it was not work at all.  But to solely put the responsibility of maintaining a friendship that didn&#8217;t really exist (on me) &#8230;<strong> <\/strong>I have long-term friendships with all sorts of people I&#8217;ve worked with and nobody asks me about them ever.  It&#8217;s just a very strange narrative that I found myself in that I couldn&#8217;t seem to get out of. <\/p>\n<aside class=\"gnt_em gnt_em_anc\" id=\"gnt_atomsnc\" data-g-r=\"lazy\" data-gl-method=\"loadAnc\" aria-label=\"Newsletter signup form\"\/>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\"><strong>Why did you want to share your experiences with Botox and fillers? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\">It&#8217;s so taboo.  If I wasn&#8217;t on camera, I don&#8217;t necessarily know that I would own a hairbrush.  My appearance is not something I think about as much as you would think, but because of the nature of what I do, my appearance is constantly being pointed out to me by others.  So I want people to know that no, you are not the only person aging.  Everybody&#8217;s aging, but if you see people that are aging on a slower progression than you are, they are (probably) having help.<\/p>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\">And that&#8217;s not everybody \u2013 some people are naturally gifted.  My mom is 81 years old, she has never had any work done, and she has flawless skin.  But she&#8217;s not under stress all the time and she definitely has a better sleep schedule than I have.  So what I&#8217;m saying is, the more people talk about it, maybe the less (judgmental others will be). <\/p>\n<figure class=\"gnt_em gnt_em_img\"><img class=\"gnt_em_img_i\" style=\"height:441px\" data-g-r=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.gannett-cdn.com\/presto\/2022\/09\/25\/USAT\/1db177e6-477d-4e9e-b063-302b2724cf17-1038171890.JPG?ssl=1\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.gannett-cdn.com\/presto\/2022\/09\/25\/USAT\/1db177e6-477d-4e9e-b063-302b2724cf17-1038171890.JPG?width=1320&amp;height=882&amp;fit=crop&amp;format=pjpg&amp;auto=webp 2x\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Kelly Ripa, left, and Mark Consuelos attend an event in Beverly Hills, California, in 2018. The actors met on the set of ABC soap &quot;All My Children&quot; and married in 1996.\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/figure>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\"><strong>You say that &#8220;compromise&#8221; and &#8220;obstinance&#8221; are the secrets to your 26-year marriage with Mark.  What do those words mean to you? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\">We compromise all the time.  We always are saying that when we negotiate with each other, we are only mildly disappointed in the end result and that is a success.  And then the obstinance is we are too stubborn to ever quit on each other.  We&#8217;re lifers.  His parents have been married 60 years, my parents have been married 61 years.  That&#8217;s all we know.  We only know how to compromise and be together.<\/p>\n<aside aria-label=\"advertisement\" class=\"gnt_m gnt_x gnt_x__lbl gnt_x__al\"\/>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\"><strong>You end the book with a sweet chapter about your kids going to college, and you and Mark finding a new &#8220;beginning&#8221; as empty-nesters.  What&#8217;s that experience been like so far? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"gnt_ar_b_p\">We took our first vacation in 25 years together alone and it was magic.  Sometimes we just sat with a cup of coffee and watched the sunset silently.  It&#8217;s the decadence in those simple things that we are really taking away.  There were years where it was like,<strong> <\/strong>&#8220;You&#8217;re going to go to the basketball game and I&#8217;ll make sure I get to field hockey practice.&#8221;  We were always ships passing in the night and trying to find a way to connect with each other.  So we&#8217;re really enjoying this time. <\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"gnt_em_gl_i\" data-g-r=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.gannett-cdn.com\/presto\/2022\/08\/29\/USAT\/5e876f7d-b6c3-42a2-ac53-702e06df8013-The_Light_We_Carry.jpeg?resize=660%2C372&#038;ssl=1\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.gannett-cdn.com\/presto\/2022\/08\/29\/USAT\/5e876f7d-b6c3-42a2-ac53-702e06df8013-The_Light_We_Carry.jpeg?crop=1799,1012,x1,y506&amp;width=1320&amp;height=744&amp;format=pjpg&amp;auto=webp 2x\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" width=\"660\" height=\"372\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At the start of Kelly Ripa&#8217;s &#8220;Live Wire: Long-Winded Short Stories&#8221; (Dey Street, 320 pp., out now), she drolly recalls how her book announcement got overshadowed by Prince Harry announcing his forthcoming memoir. Now, Ripa&#8217;s debut book arrives just one week after Queen Elizabeth&#8217;s funeral and wall-to-wall royals coverage. The &#8220;Live&#8221; host doesn&#8217;t think the &hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more\"> <a class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/harchi90.com\/denies-she-abandoned-him-in-new-book\/\"> <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Denies she &#8216;abandoned&#8217; him in new book<\/span> Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":78730,"url":"https:\/\/harchi90.com\/kelly-ripa-talks-about-tension-with-regis-philbin\/","url_meta":{"origin":80441,"position":0},"title":"Kelly Ripa Talks About Tension with Regis Philbin","date":"September 26, 2022","format":false,"excerpt":"\"I don't want to feel like I'm slamming anyone or that I'm being disrespectful. 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